CHOICE

CHOICE

Choice smaller the word , bigger the meaning it holds. This Six Letter word has deeper insight and essence than it seems to be.

At every moment of life we face choices. Like whether to get up at 7 a.m. or not, whether to go to college or not, whether to attend lecture or not. This doesn't apply to office guys as literally they don't have a choice here. Our choices make the difference between where we are and where we could be. But do our action derive choices or choices drive us? Or both? Are choices there from very beginning or are they kind of opportunity arriving at that point of time. Dictionary defines choice as an opportunity to select something. But are opportunities always positive?? By word "opportunity"  seems so.. 

Choice is generally between 2 or more things. But the real challenge here is  how to classify which is a opportunity and which isn't? In the beginning we are not capable enough to judge which will be the best choice for us as roads are different for different opportunities. On this road there are some things which we like and some we don't.

Choices could be small or big, big enough to change our life, which involves the important decisions of our lives like career, goals, motives, ethics, dreams etc. But on this road of choices,  do we have an option to switch lanes or to go back to the choices that were offered, or do paths cross each other later on in life giving us a chance again to choose what me missed, to be where we could have been. 

The biggest dilemma in these choices is to choose which one is the best, the ones we would be happy about, the one we never regret. The battle of  heart and mind begins here, to choose. To choose the best. Not everyone in life makes the best choice, but not all are given a second chance, a chance to revive their choices and their actions, a chance to choose the best.

In tough situations, when things aren't going in our way we are often afraid to make a choice as we are afraid of the consequences. But at that time all we have to do is be calm and make a choice as the key to achieve something is to take a step towards it. And believe me, we all have the power to make a correct choice. All we have to do is to just listen to our inner voice and choose wisely. So while making a choice don't lose focus from your goals and decide which is the most important & valuable thing to you. 

Citing an example from my life, 3 years ago the choice I was confused about WHAT Next?? The biggest decision of life, what to pursue in life. What to choose as a career. Different roads, different opportunities, having things i liked and disliked, now taking a decision among these choices was proving to be a more tough task. In actual the choice wasn't really there actually. I wasn't  sure back then of what to do in life. As I was not sure,  I  had to follow the herd i.e  to go for an MBA, then work in the corporate world as a manager in MNC and live without a life. But as I didn't want a life like that, I decided to wait, as I had time to make my choice. I gave myself a much needed time and luckily it proved good for me.

So don't be afraid to make a move. BE FEARLESS. BE STRONG

In the end I just want to say that "WE ALL ARE THE SUM TOTAL OF CHOICES WE HAVE MADE AND CHOICES THAT ARE TO BE MADE"